Everyone, at some point in their life, is faced with the fact this this life hurts us. Some people realize it sooner than others, but everyone is forced to deal with the problem of pain. History tells this story, too: the ancient Mesopotamians gave us their answer in The Epic of Gilgamesh, the…
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Anonymous asked: A couple days ago I planned to go to a local event on Saturday (Yesterday) with my best friend. So yesterday she text's me & tells me that she can't go because she didn't have money. I proceeded to ask her if she wanted to tailgate for the game (which was free) then and she also declined that. Then I found out that she went with her work friends to the tailgate and went to some party. This isnt the first time she's done that. What should I do? Thanks Hm, if this is the first time she’s doing it then there may be a legitmate reason for her lying to you. However, you should still ask her about it and find out why she went without you and lied about it before jumping to any conclusions.It’s always upsetting to know what your friend is leaving you out of things, you may start to feel lonely and left out. However, you need to understand that you do not deserve this kind of treatment, no one does. If this is something that is coming in between your friendship maybe it’s a sign that you need to start making new friends. If taking to her does not work, maybe this friendship was not meant to be. With love - Amina & Suwaida. |
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Anonymous asked: I'm so sick of people calling me emo. Yes, I hurt myself. But it's because of you people! You give me such low self esteem, YOU DON'T KNOW ME. You don't know why I cut myself. You don't know that every day after school, I come home, wipe the smile off my face and sit in my room and cry. You don't know that the happy, bubbly person I am is an act. You don't know that my grandmother is slowly dying and I can't take it. You don't know that; because you don't know ME. It’s horrible to know that someone you love is slowly dying before your eyes, and nobody can ever fill the hole that this person leaves. However, the sad hard reality of life is that everybody does die, and they do go to a better place. Remember that this life is only temporary, it’s horrible and depressing but as soon as you begin to understand this you will begin to slowly heal and you won’t get over the fact that this person is gone, but you will be able to go on living your life happier. Furthermore, self harming although yes, it does feel like a temporary fix but it is an addiction, and it could kill you. Hurting yourself will never make you feel better about your life, in fact it will make you feel worse and pull you deeper into depression. The next step from self harm IS suicide. As much as you don’t want to hear this you need to get help right away! With love - Amina & Suwaida. |